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tb2830
13-10-2009, 02:54 PM
my confidence is at a all time low, with everything conking out lately im starting to question my capability.

and to top it off today i have a migraine and i just feel really tired and depressed.

mumof2
13-10-2009, 02:57 PM
oh sugar, i don't know what to say....i'll just send bigs hugs instead if that's ok :hug2::hug2:

daveann
13-10-2009, 03:13 PM
:hug2: your gonna get days like this but a few months down the line you will look back and think i did it i got through the rough time :hug2:

tb2830
13-10-2009, 03:19 PM
i cant even describe how i physically feel today .....i just want to close my eyes and when i wake up that its all been a bad dream

arkvilla
13-10-2009, 03:19 PM
Some days just are down days - hopefully your spirit will lift soon - I'm sure you're very capable but it must be hard to be positive all the time.

Chin up :comfort:

Sandra

Debbie2
13-10-2009, 03:29 PM
:hug2:One day at a time hun..that silver lining is just round the next corner :hug2:

BigThunder
13-10-2009, 03:36 PM
I'm sorry TB...I've certainly had many, many days where I felt as you do now. And sometimes you can't even look at it as one day at a time, you just have to go one hour at a time. Sometimes we go thru too many things at once & it just feels like your world is crashing down on you. All I can say is usually those times don't last forever hun.

tb2830
13-10-2009, 05:40 PM
Some days just are down days - hopefully your spirit will lift soon - I'm sure you're very capable but it must be hard to be positive all the time.

Chin up :comfort:

Sandra


:hug2:One day at a time hun..that silver lining is just round the next corner :hug2:


I'm sorry TB...I've certainly had many, many days where I felt as you do now. And sometimes you can't even look at it as one day at a time, you just have to go one hour at a time. Sometimes we go thru too many things at once & it just feels like your world is crashing down on you. All I can say is usually those times don't last forever hun.


thank you all :hug2:

ive been for a lie down and feel slightly better thou need to take some tablets for my migraine ....

foreverducky
14-10-2009, 02:09 AM
i know it's hard when we have those bad days, but try to remember this is just one day, not the rest of your life. You can move through this. :hug2:

gwennie81
14-10-2009, 02:32 AM
hugs to tb

Vixynne
14-10-2009, 03:03 AM
It can be a hard slog (uphill, through the mud without wellies), at times. Sometimes you have to look for the small victories, and sometimes what you come up with is "I got out of bed today!"

Let yourself feel whatever you're feeling. If it's a down day, then don't think you have to paste a fakey-fake smile on it to make other people happy...let the unhappiness wash over you and pass. If you tamp it way down, it'll just grow and spread. Feel it and then let it go, as best you can, as soon as you can. And if you fear falling into a rut of Eeyore-ish outlooks, you have friends here to give you a hug and a :slap: to help you move forward. :hug2::hug2:

tb2830
14-10-2009, 07:41 AM
today is a whole new day .......my migraine has passed so dont feel so poorly ........
today im going to do a list of things that i want to do over the next couple of years

Skywatcher
14-10-2009, 07:53 AM
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ycZP_rLqT_A/SrWSIVEpYWI/AAAAAAAAAwE/ssN-JFk0eOI/s400/dory.jpg

Just keep swimmin hun

Claire
14-10-2009, 08:24 AM
:hug1:

Tink
14-10-2009, 11:53 AM
Yep, having a plan for goals that you want to accomplish, with time frames is a good way to sort through some things, eh?

And do that. Keep swimming I mean. It's the only way. :hug2:

MarkE
14-10-2009, 01:15 PM
So a few things broke. Nothing will make you feel better than when you fix this mess yourself, and realise you'll be fine on your own.

Are you healthy?
Will you be happier in the long run?
Still got your looks?

This dip will fly by. In a month or two they'll all be fixed and you'll still be your much better off self.

tb2830
14-10-2009, 05:17 PM
So a few things broke. Nothing will make you feel better than when you fix this mess yourself, and realise you'll be fine on your own.

Are you healthy?
Will you be happier in the long run?
Still got your looks?

This dip will fly by. In a month or two they'll all be fixed and you'll still be your much better off self.


thanks mark :hug2:

MarkE
15-10-2009, 11:57 AM
Youre welcome. I take it you are still alive and healthy? Don't go listening to dolly parton at night again. it makes people worry.

tb2830
15-10-2009, 05:32 PM
Youre welcome. I take it you are still alive and healthy? Don't go listening to dolly parton at night again. it makes people worry.

:donald: and only you would let everyone here know i listen to dolly

Isafari
15-10-2009, 08:40 PM
:donald: and only you would let everyone here know i listen to dolly

:eek3::tape::comfort:

tb2830
15-10-2009, 08:47 PM
i admit i listen to dolly late at night :hide:

Skywatcher
16-10-2009, 07:12 AM
Not one of those surprised looking ones? :unsure:

MarkE
16-10-2009, 10:39 AM
Its ok Trace. Lou listens to Rod Stewart and David Bowie.

How you feelin today anyway?