View Full Version : Had some terrible news yesterday

28-12-2009, 07:09 PM

Hey everyone.

We were out last saturday night for Aaron's work Christmas party and at the end of the night when we left there was a guy laying on the floor.
Aarons Mum went over to help him while I went to get the car and by the time I got back the police and ambulance were there.
The next day, Sunday, when Aaron got to work he found out that one of our really close friends had been attacked the night before and was in hospital in a bad way.
So it turns out the guy who was laying on the floor was infact our friend Dave.

On the monday, Dave was transferred to a neurology hospital and put into a controlled coma as he had been hit in the tempal and had swelling on the brain.
They were planning on taking him out of the coma on boxing day but on Christmas Eve he got rushed into surgery as his brain was swelling more.
After a 4 hour long operation, Dave was doing well. The operation went really well and the doctors were happy.

We got a phonecall at 07:30 yesterday morning to say that Dave had died of a cardiac arrest at 07:15. He was 23.

I have known him since I was 16 and we were very close. Aaron worked with him too so saw him everyday and they got on really well too.

We are all so upset. Just cant believe it's happened. Heres the story
http://www.guardian-series.co.uk/new...r ies/?ref=mr


28-12-2009, 07:18 PM
Jesus Kel, I have no words. :(

28-12-2009, 07:19 PM
What an obscene waste of life. :hug2: I am so very sorry, KelBelle. :hug2:

28-12-2009, 07:22 PM

28-12-2009, 07:43 PM
so sorry to hear that hun :hug2:

28-12-2009, 07:53 PM
I'm so sorry! :hug2:

28-12-2009, 07:56 PM
Could this year seriously get worse :sigh:

so so sorry hun x

28-12-2009, 07:57 PM
So it will be murder now then. What a flipping waste of a life and for what? :( Big Hugs Kel XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

28-12-2009, 08:08 PM
OMG Kel, I am so sorry to hear this :hug2::hug2: How are you and Aaron doing? I can't imagine how his poor family feels :sorry:

28-12-2009, 08:22 PM
I cannot imagine how you must all be feeling Kelly. My thoughts are with you, Aaron and David's family. X

28-12-2009, 08:26 PM
What a sad event! I've very sorry to hear this news. Please pass my condolences to you, your family, and your friends'.

28-12-2009, 08:52 PM
OMG Kel....so sorry to hear about your friend :hug2::hug2:

28-12-2009, 09:07 PM
Yeah it's a murder investigation now. Aaron's Mum has had the murder squad on the phone asking questions. And they took down my registration number to remove me from the investigation as they are going to be calling in anyone whos car was in the area at the time.

Thank u everyone so much. Just really dont know what to do at the moment. We r all over the place xx

28-12-2009, 09:10 PM
OMG Kel, I'm so sorry. I really don't know what to say sweetheart. Just big big hugs for you all :hug2::hug2:

28-12-2009, 09:13 PM
There really isn't much for you to do right now KelBelle. :hug2: Be there for his family, as you are but with such a horrible shock and terrible situation there really is nothing to do.

Mairead, hope you are ok? :hug2:

28-12-2009, 10:00 PM
I'm truly speechless. :(

28-12-2009, 10:26 PM
OMG I am really sorry to hear this sad news,:hug2: what a waste of a young life and I hope the person/people who caused his death are found and charged.

29-12-2009, 01:01 AM
Awww, Kel, I am so sorry . :hug2:

29-12-2009, 07:21 AM
Oh Kel :hug2: Just so shocking, and so very very sad.

29-12-2009, 06:42 PM
Thank you everyone for your kind words.

They didn't draw the raffle last week at the Christmas party so they drew it today and it was Dave who won first prize of 100.
It went straight into his collection and there is now over 500 in there.

Dave spent most of his time in the smoking area outside the store rather than doing work!! Lol! So they will get a bench for him with his name on it, and put it out there. xx

29-12-2009, 06:54 PM
kel was his name david justin and out in chingford? just saw the report on the news

29-12-2009, 06:56 PM
kel was his name david justin and out in chingford? just saw the report on the news

David Joslin. Yeah it was in Chingford that it happened. I just saw it on the news too xx

29-12-2009, 08:03 PM
So sorry Kel xx