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20-06-2012, 06:07 PM
My grandad passed away at 10.00 this morning, sadly he was in a great deal of pain when he went but on a good note he had his two daughters with him.
We have all spent the day with him to say our good byes, he looked so comfortable and peaceful which was comforting.
Lots of crying and laughs have been had over the last week and I'm sure grandad would have been proud to see all his family together to spend his last few days with him.

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20-06-2012, 06:28 PM
Oh sweetheart I am so sorry :hug2: I'm glad you were able to spend some time with him and say your goodbyes :hug2:

Thinking of you :hug2:

20-06-2012, 06:36 PM
i'm so sorry for your loss Lozzy :hug2:

20-06-2012, 06:40 PM
Sorry for your loss:rose5:

20-06-2012, 07:01 PM
Lozzy, so sorry to hear this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. :hug2::hug2::hug2:

20-06-2012, 07:23 PM
So very sorry to hear this :hug2:

It is never easy, but I'm glad you were able to laugh while sharing memories and stories. It shows what an amazing life he must have lead :yes:

Thinking of you and your family..

20-06-2012, 07:34 PM
I'm so sorry Lozzy! :comfort:

But be comforted knowing he's in a better place now.

Tom (:macwave:... it's never easy...)

20-06-2012, 08:05 PM
I'm so sorry hon!!

20-06-2012, 08:26 PM
Sorry to hear your sad news, Lozzy. :comfort:

20-06-2012, 08:41 PM

21-06-2012, 12:30 AM
Ah no, Lozzy. :( :hug2:

May he rest peacefully now, and the wonderful memories you have of him bring you comfort, and joy. :hug2:

21-06-2012, 05:32 AM

21-06-2012, 06:55 AM
So sorry Lozzy :comfort: May your Grandad rest peacefully.

21-06-2012, 09:30 AM
Thank you everyone, it's so nice to know your all here.
I didn't sleep well and I've spent most of the morning walking around in a daze.
I'm not looking forward to tomorrow as our youngest son has gone to camp on a school trip so he doesn't know what has happened. I just hope he'll be ok.
Our eldest son has gone very quite and hasn't really said much, it was a hard day for him yesterday as he also found out someone he knew at school died from a brain tumour.

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21-06-2012, 09:55 AM
It's never easy, and I hope your memories bring you and your family comfort. :hug2:

21-06-2012, 11:46 AM

21-06-2012, 01:42 PM
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Sending you lots of hugs petal. xxxx :hug2::hug2::hug2:

21-06-2012, 05:46 PM
Im so sorry Lozzy :( Thinking of you and your family :hug2:

21-06-2012, 09:12 PM
:hug2: :hug2:

22-06-2012, 12:47 AM
Ah, your poor boy. :( It's so hard when one is young. They expect to live forever, and learning that isn't the case is very difficult.

Will be thinking of you and carrying you in our hearts... :hug2:

22-06-2012, 06:30 AM
this is a photo taken of my grandad maybe about 20 years ago.


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22-06-2012, 08:21 AM
Oh! How kind he looks! Handsome man. :yes: Good that you have such a nice photo of him, Lozzy. :hug2:

25-06-2012, 01:29 PM
Lozzy, just heard the news. I am very sorry for your loss.

26-06-2012, 06:03 PM
Aww, sorry missed this the other day, how are you Lozzy? X

26-06-2012, 06:07 PM
So sorry :(

26-06-2012, 06:08 PM
So sorry for you loss Lozzy :hug2:

26-06-2012, 09:34 PM
If I'm honest I'm not doing to well, I'm ok if I'm with the family but not so good if I'm on my own.
I've been suffering with stress related problems for the last couple of weeks and it's not improved.
I'm going to see the doctor this week if I can, I haven't been to work this week as I don't think I'm ready just yet.
We have the funeral on the 6th July so I think I will try and get signed out work till after that.
I know it will take time before I will start to feel better.

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26-06-2012, 09:39 PM
I think that would probably be best Lozzy :hug2:

27-06-2012, 12:45 AM
Yes. :hug2: You need time to just "be." The only way to "deal" with this level of loss is to go through it. No avoiding it, or lessening it, only straight through the center of all the heartache.

Take the time you need. :hug2:

28-06-2012, 11:34 AM
Going to the doctors tonight and ask if she will sign me off work until after the funeral,
I'm not sleeping very well, I've still got tummy troubles, I'm not really able to concentrate on anything.
My other worry is as I am a carer, I am not in any fit condition to be looking after others. Hopefully the doctor will understand.

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28-06-2012, 01:57 PM
I hope the doc can help :hug2: you know where I am sweetheart :hug2:

29-06-2012, 07:20 PM
Lozzy, I hope the doctor helps. Take your time, rest, relax, remember him, cry. Make sure you have hugs from those around you. You have love from all of us here, and a place to let it all out if you need to :comfort: