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PsychoAlice
29-01-2009, 05:55 AM
I just found out that I have lost a dear friend to stage 4 skin cancer.

He fought in Iraq and Afganistan as well being stationed in Kuwait for 2 years. We have both just turned 35. He was the guy I dated right before my husband yet we have always kept in touch.

He was truely a wonderful person.

RIP Emanuel..

http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f399/PsychoAlice/Eman.jpg

kazzaqld
29-01-2009, 08:09 AM
That's really sad, Sarah :hug2: to you and sympathy to the young man's family - 35 is way too young to go. :sorry:

ukwdwnut
29-01-2009, 09:45 AM
:hug2::hug2::hug2:

daveann
29-01-2009, 10:31 AM
:hug2: sorry to read this :hug2:

lisaw
29-01-2009, 10:44 AM
That is so sad :(

I am so sorry for your loss Sarah :hug2:

Claire
29-01-2009, 10:47 AM
Such a terrible loss. He sounds like a fine young man Sarah and I know you will treasure your memories of him forever. :hug1:

mainecoon lover
29-01-2009, 01:20 PM
I am so sorry Sarah :hug2:

mumof2
29-01-2009, 01:31 PM
Sarah I am so, so sorry for your loss :hug2:

SleepinCatz
29-01-2009, 01:38 PM
:hug2:

Debbie2
29-01-2009, 01:42 PM
:hug2::hug2:so young, sorry for your loss

foreverducky
29-01-2009, 02:02 PM
Oh, I'm so sorry! :hug2:

Tinker
29-01-2009, 02:50 PM
I remember him, Sarah . You two went to a ball and you looked *BEAUTIFUL* . I'm so sorry to hear this news . :hug2:
Scarier yet, I will find out the same demise in a short time . Although I hope mine has gotten that far yet .
I'm so, so sorry for your loss .

Johnie
29-01-2009, 02:53 PM
:hug2: to you my dear friend

Rosie0610
29-01-2009, 04:10 PM
So sorry for the sad news. He sounds like a wonderful person. You are lucky to have known him!

Watchinherskip
29-01-2009, 05:02 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Sarah. Very sorry.

Mags
29-01-2009, 07:02 PM
That is so sad Sarah. I am sorry that you have lost so close a friend.

Margaret

Taja
29-01-2009, 08:12 PM
:hug2:

Beccaberry
29-01-2009, 10:15 PM
:hug2: :rose:

josh.p.
30-01-2009, 01:43 AM
:hug2: Stay strong.

Tinker
30-01-2009, 02:30 PM
Has anyone heard from Sarah ? :unsure:

PsychoAlice
31-01-2009, 12:39 AM
Im here...filling stuff away in my brain...

Tinker
31-01-2009, 01:48 PM
are you ok, sweetie ? I don't remember you ever mentioning this ( sorry, if you had and I missed it ) were you prepared for his loss . :hug2:

PsychoAlice
31-01-2009, 10:47 PM
He told me right after he found out..I didnt think this would happen 8 months after he told me

mumof2
31-01-2009, 10:55 PM
He told me right after he found out..I didnt think this would happen 8 months after he told me

:hug2:

Beccaberry
01-02-2009, 12:39 AM
Just another :hug2: for you hon...thinking of you...

PsychoAlice
01-02-2009, 01:31 AM
Thanks everyone..I really appreciate it...sigh...makes me questions my own immorality...I mean mortality...:wink:

Yes I am one of those who tries to find the humor in everything...even after my grandmas funeral we were all standing around the cemetery feeling sorry for ourselves when I pipe in and say

"we gonna eat or what" which fit the moment and everyone started laughing...my grandmother was either Feeding us or washing our clothing...go figure..

Taja
01-02-2009, 01:55 PM
Thanks everyone..I really appreciate it...sigh...makes me questions my own immorality...I mean mortality...:wink:

Yes I am one of those who tries to find the humor in everything...even after my grandmas funeral we were all standing around the cemetery feeling sorry for ourselves when I pipe in and say

"we gonna eat or what" which fit the moment and everyone started laughing...my grandmother was either Feeding us or washing our clothing...go figure..

:hug2:

And I bet that your grandmother was watching and giving you a thumbs up! :thumbsup:

PsychoAlice
01-02-2009, 02:02 PM
God I hope so

Tinker
01-02-2009, 10:32 PM
He told me right after he found out..I didnt think this would happen 8 months after he told me I'm so sorry :hug2: thats just it, you never know how rapidly it will spread .
We have a business owner here in town . Never smoked a cig in his life . He was feeling sick to his stomach all the time . Had tests and he has cancer . The last I heard he was in intensive care and was sent home with hospice . He only just found out and he's not going to make it . It's so sad !
My thoughts & prayers are with you Sarah . I know how much you loved him . :hug2:

foreverducky
01-02-2009, 10:58 PM
Sarah, that is my way as well. When my grandmother was dying we would have jokes that others just didn't get. That's how we/I deal with things...all things.