Growing up and going with my parents we would do the Hoop Dee Doo both on the first night and the last night (10 night trips). We absolutely love this dinner show.
My wife and I used to do Kona Cafe on the 1st night but never had a staple for the last night. I think it may be time to start a new tradition starting on our next trip.
we havent ever eaten onsite, have no tradition of eating anywhere special on those nights. we just wherever we fancy going, even if its back at the villa