why?Originally Posted by Tink, post: 190270
we both see it as once of the single most cynical 'holidays' ever
Love is not about 'having to' say you love someone, you can't force it it becomes false, it should be done spontaneously and without prompting.
Without that it becomes as empty as when one of my boys says 'SO-RR-Y' to his brother for hitting him.
As we both genuinely feel like that its no deal, infact she got upset one year when I did cave and brought the usual