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    to you that you found very hurtful even if it was meant in a jokey way would you say something or just leave it.
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    I think it depends how... i.e verbal or written...

    If it is written then it is hard to know the tone...

    If it is verbal, then who it is from and what the context etc..

    Could you share a bit more?




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    one of my worse faults , don't care if I sound like a drama queen , if I'm hurt and I'm making a point, I say it . I'm who I am, you like me for that or you don't . And although I don't know you Trace, you sound like a pretty awesome , fun loving, straight up woman

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deafjeff, post: 223533
    I think it depends how... i.e verbal or written...

    If it is written then it is hard to know the tone...

    If it is verbal, then who it is from and what the context etc..

    Could you share a bit more?
    it was verbal jeff

    and we were joking around but knowing everything that is happening at the moment

    what she said i found quite upsetting
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    Quote Originally Posted by tb2830, post: 223535
    it was verbal jeff

    and we were joking around but knowing everything that is happening at the moment

    what she said i found quite upsetting
    Would it make you feel better if you let her know?

    Is she one of your friend and would like her to be aware of how her comment has really made you feel.

    I guess a good foundation of any friendship is based on honestly...




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    then I would have said, fun is fun, but I don't think your comment was funny and walked away . I'm sure you would have gotten an instant apology and if it was in the presence of others, she'd had looked the fool and the others that laughed with her too . So Sorry Trace !
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deafjeff, post: 223536
    Would it make you feel better if you let her know?

    Is she one of your friend and would like her to be aware of how her comment has really made you feel.

    I guess a good foundation of any friendship is based on honestly...
    yes she is a friend or i would atleast like to think so

    everyone was gobsmacked when she said it....

    and the pharmacist said it was below the belt thou she did say she was joking

    i might wait and see if she says anything to me tomorrow then if not i shall have a chat with her

    i have a feeling one of the others might say something to her first
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tinker, post: 223537
    then I would have said, fun is fun, but I don't think your comment was funny and walked away . I'm sure you would have gotten an instant apology and if it was in the presence of others, she'd had looked the fool and the others that laughed with her too . So Sorry Trace !
    Not An OMG !!!
    nobody laughed tinker when she said it infact i think they were horrified
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    If it's a co-worker Trace, I would gently clear the air so to speak.

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    I tend to let things go at the time and then wish i had said something after. If others were around at the time though that couldnt have been nice for you



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