Well i asked her today. I said we were 99% going but you never know with dd health and that she would have to fly economy with the rest of the family. I also explained we needed to talk wages and hours but all she would have to worry about taking was spending money and everything else would be paid. I told her she had till January to think about it as flights can not be booked until then due to return flight.
Think about it she said i know my answer now YES . This is great news as i would not think of taking another carer.