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    I'm sending her lots of love and light. I spoke to Andrew about the husbands reaction and he thinks that if it was me it would be more of the fact that he couldn't protect me from this thing and that he would feel helpless. x
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    Thanks Sam, my Chris said the same sort of thing. He said it wouldn't be about the masectomy that wouldn't make a difference to him, he would feel there was nothing he could do for me, but he would be there by my side every step of the way.

    Tink, I hope they make it through, they have had a tough life with illness and they have been there for each other all this way, I don't think he would leave her, he loves her too much, he just needs to put his own feelings behind him and show her some support.









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    Gosh, how awful :( Thinking of your friend and her family and wishing her a speedy recovery.
    Hope that husband of hers works out why he's feeling and acting that way, i bet she could really do with his support right now



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    Oh, just saw this, so sorry to hear Wendy. Sending lots of PD their way. Hoping he will come around, he needs to stand up and be there for her.










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    Oh dear. Lots of pixiedust and good wishes. I know how she is feeling.. Her hubby must put his feelings aside for now. She will need his strength. I wouldn't have survived without my Pete.
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    Thanks Diane

    I've just spoken to her actually, she sounds ok, she said she is very sore which is to be expected and that the consultant said she can go home on Monday.

    I asked how her hubby was and she said he walked down to the theatre with her and then when she came back to the ward he was sitting there waiting for her. He still doesn't want to talk about it though. Teresa spoke to the nurse about it, she said that a lot of men take a while to accept it, but it is a step in the right direction that he is there all the time.









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    That is a very good step, indeed. It may be extremely hard for him to articulate. Perhaps, he's deeply feared that he would lose her. It's a very personal thing, reacting to a catastrophic illness.

    I hope he continues to find his way through what is clearly a very hard time in his life.






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    I hope your friends are doing well












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    Thanks for asking Johnie

    They are ok, hopefully she will be allowed to come home on Monday Her hubby has said he's worried that he's going to lose her and also how he will react when he sees her for the first time. He said it doesn't bother him, he knows he is being selfish but he doesn't want to let her down :(









    If ever there is a tomorrow when we're not together.......
    there is something you must always remember.
    You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
    But the most important thing is, even if we're apart...... I'll always be with you.
    Winne the Pooh - A A Milne



    A friend is a hand that is always holding yours,
    no matter how close or far apart you may be.
    A friend is someone who is always there and will always, always care.
    A friend is a feeling of forever in the heart.

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    Sending every good wish to this family you hold so dear, Wendy...

    I have no words other than those. x




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