Jim's father has been ill for sometime . We got bad news yesterday . There is a possibility of open heart surgery this coming Wednesday . They are trying a catherization, but if it is 70% blocked like the doctors assume AGAIN , then it will be major surgery . My MIL was told as weak as he is and with such low blood pressure there is no guarantee . :( She called Jim up to the house alone as the sweet dear didn't want me to know before the wedding . Some women have Monster In Laws but I was truly blessed . Jim wasn't going to tell me either, but I wrenched it out of him . We leave for Florida Sunday and his father is being adamant if we don't go, he won't have the surgery . We don't know what to do . His sister is coming today and if she can stay , we will go and if not , I'm not sure . Please keep him in your prayers .