Every christmas i either cook my dh family dinner and supper or arrange for us all to go out some were. they just turn up on the day 10 minutes before its due to be served. this year i arranged to go to local hotel (well 30 miles but that counts as local in Cornwall). My in-laws said they were not coming and just staying at home on there own, fair enough i thought. Dh uncle was coming but today canceled as sil has invited him along to hers and he said he agreed since her parents were going (dh parents). My parents booked to but have always been unsure due to nan being unwell, which i understand. Dh said last night he has to work all christmas and is not 100% sure if he will have to work christmas day. So it looks like dd and i will have cheese on toast as it will be to much work to go on my own with her. Why did dh parents lie to me to start with.
Also dsil and the inlaws have asked us what we want for christmas, i said a surprise as i buy them surprises. Was told if we did not come up with anything then we will not get anything.
Am i being silly but i am quite cross.