yes, it would be much better in this case for the boys to remember her as she was.
HOWEVER, i just called the hospital....this is so weird. The rather haughty ward clerk said she's sitting up in a chair and is much brighter. I asked her to double check given what we were told yesterday. She said she's definitely sitting up and she could see her from her desk. MIL and FIL are on theuir way in now and will call me later.
We are all a bit confused now but I guess the medication *may* have kicked in at last
fingers crossed all will be well