for my friend. she's in her mid 30's with 2 young boys and has been diagnosed with BC - i don't even want to say it. She and her partner have withdrawn to deal with it, she has had a double mastectomy and is awaiting further test results before beginning treatment.
I feel i am betraying their privacy by asking as i know they want as few people to know as possible, but i cannot stop thinking about them all. they have a very close knit family and she has her very best friends around her. i am in contact with her MIL and popped in a card the other day to just send my love and support to them all, i just put it in the mail box so i didn't see anyone which is what they would want. their 9 yr old is still going to school as normal.
please, please keep the family in your thoughts. her 9 yr old asked if she was going to d*e and she had to tell him she just didn't know.
God i feel terrible as if i am giving away their details against their wishes.