Alright my Dove....I have 3 ex husbands under my belt ( 1 physical abuser, One mental abuser and one enabler with a mean streak)...so know that i truly truly know where you are right now. You have already taken the first step...recognition of truth. Now take the next one and find a divorce attorney. NOW...don't hesitate..rip off the bandage and get on with it. DO NOT SUFFER ONE MORE DAY! And when you have second thoughts....wonder in the dark of night "what the hell am i doing?" You call me. My Hubby and I are have helped a few friends walk out of the darkness into the bright light of a new dawn.
we love you Johnnie...you know that :)